Got problems getting along with your parents? It's OK. Everyone has parent problems — even our parents have had them.As a teenager, you may feel like your parents cannot and will not ever understand you. But you've got to remember that your parents were once teens, too. And, in order for your parents to understand you, you must first understand them. Sit down and have a conversation or maybe even a nice meal with them — anything to get the relationship ball rolling. Difficult? Maybe. Necessary? Yes. One key to having a good relationship with your parents is showing them that you realize life is not all about you. You have to take into account that your parents work all the time to feed, clothe and shelter you. They are usually busy at work and may not have time to cook or do other household chores. If this is the case, surprise them by doing some of these things yourself. Show them that you can take initiative. This may be the first step in a happier and more trusting relationship between you and your parents. Another key to a good parental relationship is showing them that you can be mature and responsible. In other words, give them a reason to trust you. If your parents have you on a very short leash and won't let you go anywhere with friends, talk to them about it. Ask them to give you a chance to prove yourself. When you do go out, be sure to tell your parents where you're going, who you're going with and what time you'll be home. Don't argue with them about your curfew; just accept that this is one of the ways in which they are trying to protect you. Now, if for some reason you are late for your curfew and your parents are interrogating you, don't get hot-headed and start yelling at them. When situations like this arise, it's important to have open communication between you and your parents and discuss things calmly and rationally. If you can do some of these things, you should be able to improve your relationship with your parents. Remember, if you want to be treated like an adult, you must first act like one.